We always hear this, or we always think this, or we’re guilty of saying this:

“I still love them so much, but it’s just not right” or “As much as it’s hard to believe, I love him”

The reality is that love is really so minor; a minor part of the equation of life. Love is a conscious feeling that grows within people. It’s a feeling of admiration, appreciation, understanding- all good things. However, it is those unconscious feelings and urges that really, really matter. This is passion. This is impulsiveness. This is finding clarity when you’re in a mess. This is feeling things that we were unaware of- exciting things.

Love is not, and never will be enough, to satisfy your needs as a human being. Don’t settle for love.

Love is a word that we have placed too much emphasis on.

Above all, don’t aim to fall in love, aim to fall into happiness and beauty. Here you will truly blossom into the amazing person you are.

....I have no idea where any of this just came from. But there it is. Today’s clarity from yours truly.